Graduation 2013

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Photo taken at Pacifica’s Lambert Campus, © Nikki Faith

On May 26, I had the honor of graduating from Pacifica Graduate Institute. This commencement was truly unlike any other that I have attended. To begin with, since our school is rather small, time was permitted for each graduate to speak upon receiving their diploma. (And, bonus, we actually received our diplomas on stage. When I graduated with my first MA, we were only handed empty diploma cases). Those of us receiving our MAs personally thanked the important individuals who helped us on this journey. The handful of PhDs graduating did the same and also shared their wonderful dissertation topics. Furthermore, as an institution whose very motto is to tend to the soul of the world – animae mundi colendae gratia – the ceremony held such resonance, deeply honoring our accomplishments with ritual and acknowledging that this program is imbued with so much more than academia. And, finally, our ceremony venerated beginnings and endings. Though graduation itself always encompasses these seeming opposites, this particular occasion held the tension even more so as one of the beloved professors of the Mythological Studies Department had passed away just days before. Walter Odajynk was memorialized through shared memories, touching words, and poetic reflections.

I have deep gratitude for the four years I have been at Pacifica. I’ve surely expressed this various times here, but the experience was so transformative on so many levels. It was a heavy undertaking, and it was a rich blessing. I would not trade one moment of it. To my fellow mythees reading this – thank you again for your support and camaraderie. I love you all.

“All societies are evil, sorrowful, inequitable; and so they will always be. So if you want to help this world, what you will have to teach is how to live in it. And that no one can do who has not himself learned how to live in it in the joyful sorrow and sorrowful joy of the knowledge of life as it is.” -Joseph Campbell, Myths to Live By

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Eep! Graduation is only 10 days away! Such an exciting time!

The other day as my hubby and I were reminiscing, he pointed out that I have been a graduate student as long as we’ve been together. Wow. Yeah, for the better part of the last decade, I’ve been a grad student. I took 1 year off between MA programs, a time which was greatly dedicated to applying to more grad programs. And then I had a near-2-year leave-of-absence (in which I read many of the recommended books for my program and visited campus every quarter, so I never really felt like I “left”)…

Looking back, my first MA program (in English) seems fairly easy. I had the privilege then of being a full time student without working. What a blessing! This second MA was much more challenging. I entered the program after 1 year of teaching and a mere 5 months after getting married. Working full-time in academia and being a grad student full-time is… heavy, to say the least. 54 months have passed from the quarter I started my Mythological Studies program until this last quarter when I finished my final course… It’s nearly the length of my marriage. In that time I’ve also purchased my first house. And I’ve seen my niece be born into this world (hard to believe she’ll be 4 tomorrow).

I’ve worn many hats, and I’m realizing that “grad student” has been a defining trait of me since 2004. It’s going to be so strange to leave it behind.

I’ve come across the quote from the above image a couple times this month. I wasn’t looking for it. It just entered my path (some serendipity courtesy of Facebook and Etsy). It really resonates with me. Although I work in academia and have been entrenched in it for most of my adult life, I have never considered myself to be a super smart or even an especially gifted student. I’m just really, really motivated. Once I set my eyes on a goal, I just go for it. I know I can do whatever I set out to do. This is something my parents imbued me with. I’ll have to ask them what their secret was because I want my future children to have the same perspective. Perseverance, dedication, and commitment – that’s the key to achieving whatever you choose for yourself in life.

So what comes next for me? Well, I’ll continue wading through the world of academia, in search for a secure, full-time teaching position (which I’m beginning to think is some type of mythical holy grail that only a select few received ages ago). I’ll get to spend more time with family and friends now that homework is officially off my plate. But, mostly, right now? I think it’s time to go find myself.

Happy Birthday, Joseph Campbell

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There is no other writer/thinker/scholar/mythologist who has had as big of an impact on me as Joseph Campbell. His notion of following bliss was introduced to me during a turning point in my life when I was an undergrad. Following my bliss led me to into two master’s programs that transformed me. The first master’s program led me into my career; the second led me into my very being. Beginning with the works of Campbell, I have discovered exciting realms of mythology, scholarship, psychology, psyche, and bliss. For more than a decade, his words have inspired me to make leaps of faith and follow unpaved paths.

Happy 109th bday, Joe!

Life After Grad School

DSCN7346I’ve spent 70% of my adult life in college. And now……… I’m done! This is kind of a strange transitional period for me though. I barely know life without school! (Though as a teacher, I guess I won’t be too far removed from it ;) ). I’ve just finished my final graduate school paper, and in May I’ll be walking for my second MA. It’s exciting, but it’s also a big life change. This particular two-year-program I was enrolled in at Pacifica took me about four years to get through with the various ups and downs of life. And though I’ve written my last five research papers over the last couple quarters, I haven’t had any regular time on campus since the end of summer… and I’m really missing that community! The experience of Pacifica is something that’s almost difficult to put into words. The courses, the materials, the instructors, and the students really are a rare breed here. Delving into mythology and psychology and exploring so many rich areas inevitably affects the psyche and the very being a person. It’s about so much more than academia. Working with this material and going through this passage of my life has molded every aspect of my being. Makes it hard to say goodbye to the program and the people (though a big YAY for social networking keeping this commuter community connected)…. of course I’ll always be able to return for other campus events and seminars… but it will be different.

So, I’ve come to realize it’s a bittersweet celebration.

I am very excited about saying goodbye to homework though! Of course, I enjoyed the coursework and loved just about everything I read, but it did consume a lot of time that I am looking forward to having back. I’m particularly excited about reading anything I feel like! Though I realize with all the grading I always have to do, I’ll never really have all the time I like to fantasize about having with all my books, which I’ve recently re-organized. The picture to the right shows all the books from I bought during my graduate program. Once I was done making working piles out of them in my office, I got to organizing them. Amazing to see it all together.

And the pic below shows all the books I’ve bought/received in just the last 14 months. Each one was selected with the thought, “I’ll read this next!” And the pile, of course, just kept growing. Still haven’t decided what I’m actually going to read first!

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In addition to reading, there’s other things in life I’m eager to dig into. There are many things I’ve been interested in learning or doing over the years, and I always tell myself, “I’ll do that when I’m done with school!” This includes learning sign-language, learning to sew, and learning how to really cook more than spaghetti and quesadillas. I also want to catch up on TV shows that started when I was in grad school that I never got a chance to check out. Fringe & Castle are on the top of that list. Other projects I want to take on include taking agility classes with my pup and tagging the last decade of digital photos.

More importantly, though, what I’m really excited about is spending more time at home with my hubby, working on our various house projects, and spending more time with all of our extended family. Since I commuted to school and was out of town once a month, there were some events I wasn’t here for. And there were many others I just couldn’t make, or really enjoy, because I was so swamped with homework and research. And, of course, the biggest step and most important thing we’re now focused on is starting a family of our own.

For now, I’m going to enjoy the liminal space I’m in and embrace whatever life has to offer next. Thanks for reading. Namaste.

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© myth_girl

Under Construction

Hello, readers! I know I haven’t originated much original content lately. Mythgirl.org is kind of under construction right now. I suppose that’s because my own mind is under construction. I’m just about at a new phase in life right now, but I’m greatly in a liminal space. I’m almost done with graduate school, but I’m finishing up my last class. So I’m kind of in and out of that space. I am continuing teaching and, in any free time, we’re still working on house projects too.
I’ve got some decisions to make about Mythgirl.org: primarily I have to decide whether or not to renew my domain, which expires in just a couple months. I love writing, and I love sharing thoughts and ideas and connecting with people online, but I’m a little unsure what my “purpose” would be if I continue Mythgirl.org. And if I’m going to keep a less focused blog, I don’t think I need my own domain name…. The blog’s had a heavy focus that last couple years on grad school and related pieces regarding myth and pop-culture. There’s the occasional “real life” posts, and then random “here’s-what’s-currently-interesting-to-me” posts. As I leave the realm of grad school and am not currently pursuing publication as I was before, that leaves the blog as a bit of a hodge podge… so… lot’s to think about. Just venting some thoughts.

Hoping 2013 is treating everyone well.

Namaste.

Carpal Tunnel Survival Guide

One of my friends put up an early morning post on Facebook asking for suggestions with carpal tunnel pain that was keeping her awake. After I posted a lengthy response on her wall, I decided to write up a little blog post. I’ve been coping with carpal tunnel since 2008. I’ve seen a few different docs and done a lot of research. So, I’m just hoping what I’ve learned in the last few years can help someone else. :)

1The most important thing is wearing wrist braces when you are doing whatever activities bother your carpal tunnel. It’s also recommended to wear them when you sleep (though I have a terrible habit of unconsciously taking them off). I tried a lot of different braces. Many are too bulky and restricting. My number one pick is the brand Futuro.

I have found something, however, that I prefer over wearing braces: spider tech tape. You saw many Olympians wearing it during the most recent games. It really works wonders. They make tape for different parts of the body, including the wrist, that’s already pre-cut to what works best in that area. It lasts for several days. Though, it can be a little more difficult for it to stay nicely on the inside of your palm since you use it so much 2for every daily task you do. You can wear the tape over the wrist (as pictured here) or under the wrist, which I find more effective for carpal tunnel pain. Though when I am really having a bad flare-up, I find it incredibly effective to use two pieces on one hand and have the tape both under and over the wrist. (Bonus: that helps the palm section stay in place longer). I find it a little too pricey for daily use, but whenever I have a bad flare up or am doing a wrist-intensive project, it’s worth every penny.

If your carpal tunnel is the result of working a lot at a computer (like me) you absolutely must have an ergonomic setup. This includes having an ergonomic mouse and keyboard. You should also have your keyboard on an adjustable tray (but take the writs supports off) that you can pull out and place so that your keyboard is basically right in your lap. Most work stations are set where you are lifting up to access the keyboard and that’s terrible for those of us with carpal tunnel. Your computer monitor should also be in front of you at a level that doesn’t require you to tilt your head up or down. Frequent breaks are essential as well (though I’ll admit to being really terrible about that).

4For daily management of carpal tunnel, there are quite a few things that you can do. First of all, I discovered that there is excellent physical therapy available for carpal tunnel. None of the doctors mentioned this to me! I researched it on my own, and then had no problem getting a PT referral from my primary care physician. Daily exercises help strengthen the wrist and hands. If you don’t want to go the PT route, you can learn exercises yourself from The Carpal Tunnel Helpbook. There are other useful tips in the book as well.

5I also discovered Topricin pain cream. It works best if you use it daily as recommended and don’t just wait for a flare up. Many of us use ice to calm down a flare-up. It’s a great option, and I discovered this ActiveWrap that is perfect to keep ice on the wrists in place. Paraffin wax was also recommended to me at one point. I personally didn’t find it as effective as the methods I’ve discussed above, but it really did feel good.

Well, I hope someone out there can find these tips useful. If you have some tips to share too, please include them in the comments! There are many approaches to dealing with carpal tunnel. I know surgery is an option, but I was told that if one continues doing the activity (in my case, typing) that flares up the carpal tunnel, surgery is only a temporary fix. Additionally, the above methods are great alternatives. I would definitely save surgery as a last resort.

Namaste.

Spreading Good Cheer

It’s been a heavy week in America. I wanted to share some feel-good items that I think can lighten the weight and lift your spirit, at least for a few minutes…

To begin with, I enjoyed this link that contains 21 pictures to restore your humanity. I even cried a few happy tears when I was scrolling through.

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Villager carrying stranded kittens to dry land during floods in Cuttack City, India.

Next, my uncle shared this article, and I was inspired that I decided back the project on Kickstarter.

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Imagine a movie that includes every day of the rest of your life…

Here’s some amazing beauty available via PDF from NASA – for free.

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Richat Structure in Mauritania viewed from space.

 

And surely, this baby hedgehog will make you smile, so I just have to include him:

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Finally, here is one more reason to smile. My beautiful, three and half year old niece dancing with a dancing Santa decoration. We are all so blessed to have her in our lives, and I hope she can bring you a smile today.

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